Saturday, 28 November 2009

Beef/vegetable soup blues

It’s the day before pay day, and for the last 24 hours we have been living off Maiyuu’s beef and vegetable soup. ‘It’s filling, and I won’t have to spend any more before the money comes out,’ he said.

Cash ran out early this pay cycle, thanks to the birthday party he put on for me early last week, which already seems like a small age ago.

I bought a meal of fried rice/Chinese sausage at work last night, and Maiyuu has been nibbling on snacks, but other than that, we have lived solidly on his soup.

And yet another full-on soupy day lies ahead.

Roll on pay day!

Friday, 27 November 2009

Kong, Phiwit: Setting new standards

Two men hugging for what seems an age on Thai TV?

No, never!

And yet in this prime-time drama it has happened.

Last night the aspiring gay romance between Kong and Phiwit in the Channel 5 drama, Tomorrow, I’ll Still Love You (พรุ่งนี้ก็รักเธอ), took another big leap forward.

Kong and Phiwit are played by Fluke Pachara Thammon (ฟลุค พชร ธรรมมล) and Oh Anuchyd Sapanphong.

The two have met at the local hospital, where Kong’s mother has been admitted for care.

Mum is out for the count. Kong, sitting alone by her bedside, is finding life hard to take without her.

In tears, he implores his mother to come back to him.

Phiwit turns up by his side to comfort him.

Kong rushes into Phiwit’s arms – and lucky Phiwit holds Kong for what must be the longest man hug in Thai television history.

He rubs his back furiously to show that he is merely consoling the young man, not making a pass at him (sorry if I have spoiled the moment).

Kong is upset about his Mum, of course. Emotions are taking over.

But Phiwit is nonetheless taken aback when Kong declares that he and Phiwit can never meet again.

'I am scared...scared...scared that Mum will find out who you are, and something else will happen to her.'

Phiwit is unfazed.

'Can you really expect me to abandon you at a time like this?'

'You can't worry about something which hasn't happened yet,' he says.

'Even if people find out, they won't think ill of us...they will understand.

Don’t worry...I will never let anyone hurt you or your family. I am here for you,’ vows Phiwit, giving his back another furious rub. 'I promise!'

Kong's Mum doesn't yet know that Phiwit is brother to the poisonous snake of a man who killed her daughter (Kong's sister).

Kong is afraid that his Mum will take another turn for the worse if she finds out, so is eager that their secret not be revealed.

They have struck up a friendship in spite of themselves. Initially, Kong was keen that Phiwit keep his distance, for the sake of his family.

Now, he's worried about how others will react if they find out who Phiwit really is.

Family ties have brought these two young men together, but at any moment also threaten to drive them apart.

In fanciful gay moments, I like to imagine, however, that Kong is also referring to the fledgling gay relationship which has developed between them, though this being a straightlaced Thai drama, he probably isn't.

At the Pantip webboard, Thais are impressed by Fluke’s performance as Kong. They also like the sound of his voice: that's him singing at the tail end of the hospital scene.

‘He displays a maturity well beyond his years,’ says one.

Agreed! Actor Fluke slips into his role effortlessly. It is an impressive, even stunning performance for this young actor.

In behind-the-scenes clips on set, Takonkiat 'Boy' Weerawan, head of Exact Entertainment, directs the young men with painstaking care to detail. 'If Kong does that, Phiwit is likely to react this way'...and so on.

Yet I bet even he can't believe his luck. In Fluke, he has found an actor who does all the work for him. He can turn mere words on a page into feelings on screen which seem so real they almost jump out at you.

He is neither self-conscious, nor awkward, even when the script fails to rise to the occasion, as it does at times (this is a soap opera, after all).

The original soundtrack, Rak Deow, Jai Deow is by Thanapol "Sua" Intarit (เสือ ธนพล รักเดียวใจเดียว).  It's here.

Wednesday, 25 November 2009

Back to the past

Old wooden house in the market, with cat
Author's note: I bumped into this story in the archives.  
For some reason, I put it in drafts mode, where it sat unread for months. I posted it again here as it reminds me of the life we left behind in sleepy Talad Phlu, before our move into central Bangkok. 

When Maiyuu is not making food at our place, he visits a shophouse in the market to cook it there.

Normally Maiyuu likes to cook at home. We do not have a kitchen as such, but Maiyuu makes do.

He sets himself up on the floor of our condo, where he keeps a small gas cooker. If he has run out of ingredients, he will venture into the market.

He buys his meat and vegetables at the fresh market, and returns to the condo to make lunch.

Some days, however, he drops in to an eatery next to our place, and asks if he can borrow the wok.

He chooses the ingredients he needs from the owner's food cart, fires up the wok, and off he goes.

Maiyuu has brought home many tasty dishes from this eatery, which he devised and cooked on the spot.

The owner is a single woman in her 30s, who lives on the upper level of a two-storey shophouse with her sister, and their mother.

We call her Chueay (the Thai word for lethargic), because she's a slow worker.

Cooking an order can take her 20 minutes, but there’s plenty to watch while we wait.

Nearby, a family raises cats. An old man opposite keeps scrawny chooks in a cage.

The cats gather around the cage, eyeing their prey.

Chueay’s wok sits outside her shophouse, next to her foodcart.

'Where did you learn to cook?' Chueay asked Maiyuu one day.

'My mother taught me,' said Maiyuu. ‘In my mind, I can still see the dishes we cooked together.’

'Do you still cook with her?'

'No, she's dead,' he said, matter-of-factly.

My boyfriend, raised in the provinces, is a stoic type.

Maiyuu lost his Mum when he was just 15. His Dad has died a few months before. After his parents died, Maiyuu moved in with his grandmother, who lived in the same family housing compound.

He left home a few years later. Accompanied by two or three school friends, he travelled around central Thailand, taking up casual work.

Maiyuu washed dishes at an eatery here, made burgers at a fast food joint there.

He enjoyed himself most selling watches at a department store in the central province of Chachoengsao.

‘I made good money there. The owner could see I sold watches well, and entrusted me with more and more responsibility, until eventually I ran his watch counter for him,’ Maiyuu told me.

Two or three staff worked under him.

A few years later, in his early 20s, Maiyuu fetched up in Bangkok.

Most of his friends had gone their own ways. In the capital, he worked a stint at McDonalds. Later, he served at a lunchtime cafe owned by a friend, a young man called Giant, who as befits his nickname was extremely tall.

When I met him he was sleeping at his friend's place every night as he hadn't long been in the city and had yet to find a place of his own.

At Giant's suggestion, Maiyuu moved in to my single room at an inner-city hostel to help me settle in.

A few months later, by this time partners, we moved to our present place in Talad Phlu, a market village on the Thon Buri side of Bangkok.

The market was the home of a large Chinese community back when Thon Buri was the capital of Bangkok.

When the capital moved to Phra Nakhon on the other side of the river, the Chinese shifted to Sampeng market, where many still remain, and a Muslim community took their place, bringing betel trees with them.

Talad Phlu, on the banks of the Bangkok Yai canal, is known as a former trading post and growing area for betel (phlu, in Thai) trees.

A railway, part of the Mae Klong line and close to Wong Wian Yai station, has run through Talad Phlu for more than 100 years.
Talad Phlu railway station, past and present 
Back in its days as a bustling fresh market, traders arrived by train or on the local canal by boat.


The canal running through the market, back in its heyday and today
Today goods are still shifted on that railway line, and a few traders in rickety open boats sell goods to tourists passing by on the canal, which these days gets few traders visiting from out of town.

Back to our humble story...Maiyuu and I moved to Talad Phlu so my partner could reunite with his friends, who had rented rooms in an ageing condo there.

The condo was really more like an apartment where the rooms, from the inside, have no windows to the outside world. Their doors open to a view of the dusty railway line next to the building. Cheuay's shop was just behind the condo on the other side of the line...just a hop across the tracks and we were there.

A handful of young men and women he knew from school days had rented rooms there and invited Maiyuu to join them.

Thais from the provinces may be hardy, resilient, types, but they like to stick together. Some days, these old school friends gather at Chueay’s place for a meal. None can cook as well as Maiyuu, so he likes to borrow Chueay’s wok to cook for them.

On this day, however, Maiyuu was at Chueay’s place, cooking for us alone.

As Maiyuu finished cooking each dish, Chueay put it in a plastic bag for him so he could take the food home. He paid her for the ingredients alone.

Whether cooking while seated uncomfortably on the floor of our condo, or whipping up a quick dish in the market below, my boyfriend is the resourceful type.

He gets on with the job at hand, without complaint.
Chueay's place, closed for the day (pics taken Nov, 2019)

Next door is a smart hostel
Update, July 2020: 
Chueay's humble shophouse is still there, though the place next to it has been converted into a smart inner-city hostel as part of Talad Phlu's transformation from sleepy market town, as it was 10 years ago when we lived there, to smart urban outpost of Bangkok.

Talad Phlu adapts even as its historic importance as a trading hub has diminished. A rash of condos has gone up since a BTS skytrain opened at the doorstep of the market in 2014.

As you would expect, the skytrain improved access to the area and ushered in a wave of modernisation including smart inner-city style shops and eateries, the likes of which did not exist in my day.

I recall an urban-style cafe opened on the main road but lasted a matter of months, as locals, unaccustomed to central Bangkok ways, stayed away. The exception was the local teen population, who knew about latte and WiFi, but games shops also competed for their trade.

During World War II, the building which now houses Cheuay's place and the hostel next door was an imposing army doctor's clinic. The building, once the tallest in the market, burned down in a fire but was rebuilt.

I took the pictures above during a visit in November last year. Unfortunately Chueay's place was closed for the day, or I would have dropped in for a chat.

Read more about the hostel next to her shop here, and Talad Phlu's history here (Thai only, but with pics). For pics of the town including its lively trading scene, see this FB site. YouTube has a travel-style clip which gives you a good feel of the township here.

Talad Phlu looks more modern now than it did 10 years ago. When I walk through it today, I barely remember parts of the market, it has changed so much. For more of how the town has developed since the skytrain started its push west of the river, see here.

Kong, Phiwit: Seize the moment while you can

Fan art from the show
Time for a catch-up with the aspiring gay romance between Kong and Phiwit, played by actors Fluke Pachara Thammon (ฟลุค พชร ธรรมมล) and Oh Anuchyd Sapanphong, in the Channel 5 soap opera, Tomorrow, I’ll Still Love You (พรุ่งนี้ก็รักเธอ).

The two young men are drawing closer as the weeks go past, though in the most recent episode Phiwit tells Kong that while he’d like to love him more whole-heartedly, he’s unable to do so.

Phiwit knows his own heart better than Kong, who is younger.

He has been chasing Kong from the start, but knows he can only go so far.

Kong loves Phiwit in spite of himself, but is a long way from finding the courage to express those feelings openly.

He palms off Phiwit’s playful advances. Phiwit takes the rejections with a good heart.

So why can’t Phiwit, despite his greater self-knowledge, push things a little further?

The answer might lie in himself – despite his surface bravado, he cares for Kong’s feelings too much to risk scaring him.

Or it could also lie in a complicated web of family ties which propel this TV drama.

Both are related to the main characters.

Kong is younger brother to Keaw, who has a stormy relationship with her former boyfriend, Por, now her boss.

Since their breakup, Por has been overseas and back, and found a new girlfriend.

He still loves Kaew, but can’t bring himself to admit it.

As her boss, he treats her harshly, as if he is punishing her for his own past mistakes.

Kaew puts up with his brutal treatment, because she remembers what they had together.

Phiwit, meanwhile, is younger brother to Phipat, a poisonous snake of a man whose wife, years before, killed Kaew’s sister.

At first, Kong resents Phiwit because of his brother’s actions.

Phiwit says he and his brother may be related but are they still different people, so he should put his bitterness to one side.

From last night's episode:

Phiwit is a speed car driver, but takes ill before a big race. Kong hears from a third party that Phiwit is unwell.

Fearing bad news, Kong hurries to the track, where he finds a smouldering wreck of a car, and rescue workers at the scene.

He tries to get past the rescue workers to inspect the damage, as he fears Kong has crashed his car.

They hold him back. He implores with them to let him through.

To his relief, Phiwit appears in the crowd.

Fortunately, he had asked someone else to drive for him. It’s his stand-in driver who was involved in the accident, not him.

"Did you think it was me in the car?" asks Phiwit.

Kong won't say.

"It could have been me in that car. I pulled out of the race at the last moment.

"You never know what might happen to any of us. If you want to do something, you should do it while you still have the chance," Phiwit tells Kong animatedly.

Meaning? If you love someone, seize the moment while you can.

He counsels Kong about his sister Kaew, and her troubled relationship with her boss Kong.

"Por and your sister Kaew still love each other, but 'love' and those two can't go together.

"Their story is not much different from ours.

"I am not that different from Por," he says.

Meaning?

We feel for each other ,but while I want to love you, I can’t.

Rescue workers race past, knocking Kong into Phiwit’s arms for a lengthy man hug.

Earlier:

An ageing ladyboy/cook who lives with Kong’s family knows that Kong has formed an attachment with Phiwit.

Kong, however, can’t admit it to himself. "You can run away from many things in this life, but you can’t run away from your heart," she says.

Phiwit visits Kong at his home, but Kong, hearing him approach, hides in the garden. The ladyboy cook meets him at the gate instead.

Phiwit suspects Kong is hiding in the shrubbery, so speaks loudly enough for him to hear.

"I am not one who gives in easily. I am determined to win, no matter what."

Ostensibly, he is talking about his next car race, but really he is talking about his relationship with Kong. He will win over Kong’s heart, no matter what.

Hiding in the bushes, Kong smiles. He knows how Phiwit feels towards him, and admires his courage. He might even hope that Phiwit’s wishes come true.

Preview scene from tonight's episode:

Kong’s mother is admitted to hospital (a recurring event in this soap opera). Kong is crying. Phiwit, who turns up at the hospital, takes him in his arms.
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At the popular Pantip webboard, diehard fans of the budding relationship between Kong and Phiwit have assembled videoclips of their key scenes together. Watch them here [link harvested - it died]

Nothing like this couple’s gay love affair, tame as it may seem to some, has aired on Thai TV before.

Good things can’t last forever. We should make the most of it while we can.

PS: Google's Adsense bot has seen fit to withhold advertising from this page. Message to Google: It's just make-believe, and meant in fun. Get a life!

Sunday, 22 November 2009

Kong, Phiwit share a hug


Actors Fluke Pachara Thammon and Oh Anuchyd Sapanphong, who share a hug in an upcoming scene from the Channel 5 soap opera, Tomorrow, I’ll Still Love You (พรุ่งนี้ก็รักเธอ).

It’s the closest Fluke's character Kong, and Oh's character Phiwit, have come to acknowledging the feelings they have for each other.

For weeks, they have baited each other, teased at each other’s loyalties, dared each other to say how the other really feels.

Finally, we have it, though their embrace comes about by accident rather than design. This is a Thai soap, after all - anything else would look too gay.

Phiwit is a racing car driver. An accident occurs on track. Rescue men race past, knocking Kong into his arms, the first time they have come into such close contact, after weeks of pushing each other away.

Feisty Kong resists the embrace of Phiwit, but Phiwit refuses to let him go. Kong starts to enjoy the moment despite himself, and rubs Phiwit's shoulder.

They hold the embrace for what seems an age, before finally drawing back. They give each other a searching gaze.

I enjoyed that...did you?

I need you. Do you feel the same way?

Watch the scene here, from the 2.24 mark.

The clip also contains background scenes of producer Boy Takonkiat Weerawan directing the pair, before their big embrace.
Boy Takonkiat Weerawan, in black, directing the hug scene  


Earlier, Oh and Fluke (ฟลุค พชร ธรรมมล) are interviewed about their roles. ‘Boy told me to imagine that Oh is a girl, so the scenes where we have to draw close feel natural,’ said soft-spoken Fluke.

Boyfriend Maiyuu, who watched the clip, stormed out of the room when he heard those words.

Dear Fluke, why not just say: 'Boy told me to use my imagination.' That's what actors are supposed to do, after all.

Fluke is young. The media taunts him about his supposed gay tendencies, which must hurt. Allow the young man some face-saving fake moments.

Maiyuu has a romantic streak. Despite those fake words by Fluke, I am sure he is as excited as I am about the upcoming gay scene.

The soap airs again tonight.

The Kong/Phiwit hug is moving, and takes their relationship forward another step.

Oh, in his interview comments, is encouraging about gay love.

‘Love is the source of life, no matter what form it takes,’ he says.