Tuesday, 25 December 2007

Sad, lonely gay? (2)

'If she has run into problems or has spent it, then don't worry. But at least we should find out.'

Later that night, I asked him for his response.

'I can't get through to her.'

I doubt he will pursue the matter. It's not his money, so he doesn't have to worry.

Early this year, he took B35,000 from my account, after being diagnosed with lung cancer. At the time we were arguing, so once again he was not game to ask for the money. He just helped himself.

He gave the money to Chulalongkorn Hospital, after doctors urged him to pay a lump sum into their insurance scheme, to cover his treatment costs at a specialist cancer hospital in Chon Buri.

A day later, he asked them to cancel the policy, because he decided he would like to be treated in Bangkok instead.

It took months for the insurance company to release the money, but finally it did. Maiyuu has not gone to pick it up. He is keeping it there in case his condition returns. He claims it is making a better rate of return there than if it were in the bank, so he may as well leave it.

That sounds fine in theory, unless we were to need the money as a couple. What if we found a new condo, and wanted to move? That's expensive.

If I was to fall ill, or have to return overseas suddenly, would Maiyuu be willing to help, by giving me the money? Unlikely. Maiyuu fears that if I leave this place, he will end up with nothing other than what he has managed to secret away in the time he has lived with me.

He regards it as a question of survival, as he doubts he would be able to manage financially if left alone. Yet he is not willing to help himself. Maiyuu's parents, when they died, left him and his sister an estate.

now, see part 3

1 comment:

  1. Gosh, well, then I should get down to the local insurance company- if it gives better rates of return than the bank for no more commission, it'd be worth investing. Don't suppose the "bf" can come up with the NAME of this supposed insurance company for me so I check out the policies?

    If you continue to press the point, you will get wilder and wilder stories and prevarications and dramas, and probably his "cancer" will act up again, too. If you really press him on the money (and accept no excuses or delays or dramas or mysteries), most likely you will wind up breaking up (as would be best for you). You secretly know this, and that's why you don't press him.

    He's probably just fine with the sister but needs another excuse to keep the other money.

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