Saturday, 30 May 2009
Wet weather friend
When I came home from work, the lights were out.
Maiyuu had gone out. I checked my cellphone. He had sent me an SMS shortly before, letting me know that he would not be home.
'But there's food in the fridge,' his SMS said.
Well done. If boyfriend goes out, he should tell his mate, right? Cooking is even better.
I cast a quick glance around the place, which I had not seen in five hours.
The dishes were done. The dining table was clear.
I walked into my bedroom, where I found my washing on the bed. Maiyuu had retrieved my washing from the balcony in time to avoid last night's fierce rainy-season downpour.
Can this get any better?
Maiyuu had done everything I could expect of him as my stay-at-home other half. Nine years of breaking him in to farang ways are starting to pay off.
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God, another night battling Bangkok floods.
Farang C and I waded though ankle-deep water and pelting rain to reach home last night.
We live in the same condo, and are also friends at work.
Thai colleague Sor dropped us off in his car. Rather than take us all the way home, he let us off close to a railway line about five minutes away.
I was carrying a small portable umbrella. Farang C had nothing.
'I think you should have asked him to take us all the way home,' said farang C, as we sloshed through the floodwaters in our soi (sub-street).
'I plan to complain to the Drainage Department. This is terrible.'
My Thai friend Sor has given me a lift home after work for years.
Last night was farang C's first ride.
I know Sor's habits: he doesn't like to deviate from the route he knows. To put it more simply, he gets nervous in unfamiliar territory.
'I couldn't have asked him to take us all the way home. Imagine if his car had become stuck in the floods around our place,' I thought.
Farang C was soaked within moments of leaving the car. My portable umbrella was too small to be of much use, and before long I was soaked, too.
I contemplated the state of my track shoes, which have only just recovered after I was last caught in heavy rain a few weeks ago.
'After you were stuck in the rain last time, your track shoes stank,' farang C told me.'I had to hold my nose.'
After that day, I kept wearing them into the office, just in case I was stuck in heavy rain again on the way home.
I wear them to protect my proper work shoes, which I take in a bag.
Last night as our shift ended I changed from my work shoes back into track shoes, as I suspected he would have to walk through the wet again. I was right!
Slosh, slosh. Sploosh, sploosh.
'The trick is to stuff wet shoes with newspaper as they dry, so the smell goes away,' said farang C.
Back at the condo, we chatted in the corridor. His place is right next to mine.
I fetched some newspaper from my place, as he had run out.
Farang C stuffed his track shoes with newspaper. After we said our goodbyes for the night, I stuffed mine as well.
I like having a close friend. I have waited eight years in this place to get one. Farang C is straight, but doesn't seem to mind my funny gay ways.
With him, I can just be me. And in this odd place called Thailand, we can all do with a bit of that.
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8 comments:
ReplyDeleteAnonymous29 May 2009 at 22:28
"Nine years of breaking him in to farang ways are starting to pay off." Thank god for that!
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Anonymous29 May 2009 at 22:52
So what's the project for the 2nd decade?
P.S. Most of my Thai friends are happy enough to was their own dishes. I don't think it's really a matter of 'farang ways.'
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Bkkdreamer29 May 2009 at 23:48
Anon 2: Re the next 10 years...Steady - I don't want to get too ambitious!
Mine leaves the dishes in the sink all day. Usually, he does them in the mornings only, as he reckons it's bad luck to do them at night.
Last night, he made an exception.
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Anonymous30 May 2009 at 03:29
don't be stingy, go buy few more pairs of track shoes
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Wilko30 May 2009 at 08:06
The fact that Maiyuu did all that work, so you came home to a tidy place, is so sweet of him.
Haha bad luck to wash dishes at night, l'll remember that one!
l have a dishwasher though, does it still count?
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Bkkdreamer30 May 2009 at 08:20
Wilko: It is sweet of him - or maybe he's worried about my reaction if he just walks out and leaves me to my own devices.
Maiyuu would probably like to keep me out of the kitchen, as I could make a mess. That's another reason for him to do the dishes before he goes.
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Kevo3330 May 2009 at 09:01
our dishwasher is dead as of a week ago, and i'm not buying a new one until it's time to remodel our kitchen in a month or so.
I can not tolerate doing dishes by hand however. Thank god my BF doesnt mind it a bit and like Maiyuu, does the dishes every morning.
Now if i can just get him to vacuum... :P
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Faraway Friend30 May 2009 at 10:10
The trick is to pour a little baking soda in the shoes, borax too if there is mold, then some newpaper, then put in the hot sun. On a car dashboard in the sun is a good place to dry shoes.
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